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You’ve heard the phrase...

“WORDS TO LIVE BY!”

But what if the words that truly matter most are the ones we use to “Love By?”

Words to Love By isn’t just a book—it’s a collection of powerful, intentional words that serve as building blocks for wildly successful relationships. Whether you’re starting fresh or strengthening what you’ve already built, this site offers three ways to help you grow

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What people are saying about: WORDS TO LOVE BY

- Lori

I love how well this book was written like the authors are speaking directly to you. It’s not complicated or overwhelming. Clear, easy-to-understand concepts, like a conversation with a dear friend. I especially loved all of the personal stories.

– Roseville, CA

- Dr. Tripplet

Kim and Joel masterfully weave all the components of this book and reveal how each building block supports the other. I highly recommend this book to all couples. It would make for a great wedding gift! I think it could be used in small groups as well as for personal edification. Pick up a copy today!

– El Paso, Tx

- Kassandra

One of the many things that makes this book an invaluable resource is how it reaches couples at so many stages in their lives and marriages. As a married woman with two young children, the chapter “Joining” really struck me. When they say “The Single greatest thing you can do as a parent to ensure the happy and healthy development of your child is to show them that you love your mate and place priority on your marriage.” That’s HUGE for me and something I will be working on. For sure.

– Auburn, CA

- Rebeccca

Joel and Kimberly thoroughly describe characteristics of a loving marriage by dividing the book into 26 essential elements corresponding to the alphabet. For example, in one chapter, “F” stands for Flexibility–”An openness to consider or reconsider another person’s view, in whole or in part, before insisting that your own view is the best course of action.” At the end of each chapter is a page called “A Look in the Mirror” with questions designed to engage couples in honest, fruitful discussion.

– Sacramento, CA